From the contact form:

Andy, I was just about to pass your site on to a friend of mine who is also in internet marketing when I came across your word “bastard.” That is unacceptable language in a professional situation and many people find it offensive. You will find greater success with a greater number of people when you use respectable words. Just a tip from a friend…

I am keenly aware of the language I use and the effect it has on others and how it communicates my brand and personality. If someone is riled by sharp language then they probably aren’t a good fit for me or my business.
And it also means they haven’t heard me talk about asshole marketing, tag whores, or calling bullshit on John Gray.






33 responses to “Bastard”

  1. Paul Avatar

    Love yer werk!

  2. sir jorge Avatar

    That’s right man! Stand your ground!

  3. Tara McGillicuddy Avatar

    I agree!! It’s like the people who get upset at my typos probably wouldn’t make good clients for me.
    Come on, Bastard isn’t even on George Carlin’s list is it? I could see a few people getting upset if you dropped the “F Bomb” but Bastard???

  4. Alex Grech Avatar

    Bastards and ass holes inhabit real life, and are part of our every day vernacular. Someone who has a problem with that will never ‘get’ what you have to offer his business or life proposition..

  5. Nenad Ristic Avatar

    I have to say that as far as reasons go for not reading a blog, that one ranks as one of the most pointless ones I have heard.

  6. Deep Avatar

    Un-Fucking Believable… some people!

  7. doug M Avatar

    damn right! people are too sensitive these days, especially on the internet, i mean come on people it’s the friggin internet!

  8. Erin Blaskie Avatar

    Love the post! I’m all for being yourself – even in the virtual, business world. In fact, my favorite thing to tell potential clients in our first call is that I’m a shoe whore and that I need to buy at least one pair of shoes per week. At least it lets them know that I expect them to pay me so I can fulfill this obsession of mine.

  9. KG Avatar

    You gotta be you — good for you for sticking to your guns.
    I find it hilarious that people get offended by words like that, especially when there are a whole host of TRULY offensive things on this planet (intolerance and prejudice, situation in Darfur, most governments ignoring global warming).

  10. Sharon Sarmiento Avatar

    Using the word “bastard” means you’re a potty mouth?
    Geez, now that person is strict! You’re better off without her, Andy. 🙂
    This is probably a person who still has that “everything must be politically correct” corporate mindset.
    Bastards, all of ’em!

  11. Sharon Sarmiento Avatar

    This just occurred to me…
    We’re just lucky she didn’t see the post where you inadvertently directed us to the gay porn sites.
    This “bastard” thing is too funny 🙂

  12. Chris Swain Avatar
    Chris Swain

    Give the “Hell” Andy! I too wash my hands of bastards like that. To all the potty mouths on the net, I salute you.

  13. Steve JC Avatar

    ‘Just a tip from a friend …’????!!!!!
    How patronizing can that person be??!!!
    It’s part of your brand, stick to it.

  14. John W. McKenna Avatar

    You’ve been tagged for the “Does Most Leadership Suck Challenge”. Check the link for details.
    Take care…

  15. Licia Berry Avatar

    Hey Andy,
    I think this is a great example of getting even clearer who you are writing for….obviously this reader is not your target audience, and that’s okay! You can only be authentic to who you are, and the “right” audience will follow. To thine own self be true!!!
    Thanks for your fresh, shake-it-up energy,

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  17. Lindsay Avatar

    O.K. That does it… you have gone too far this time! I am going to call in the Thought Police, the Moral Crusaders for Mediocrity and, well, any body else, I can think of who will punish you… I’ll spread the word, I’ll tell people how you used Bastard with a capital B…

  18. Adam Hommey Avatar

    Congratulations on your commitment to be true to yourself and your brand.
    I use the “F” word in conversations with clients every day (as do many of our clients with me). That’s called “real conversations with real people.” I speak my mind publicly and call something for what it is. When I get on a roll, I can let out a blue streak that would make a drill sergeant pause.
    Some uninformed people call me “unprofessional” or tell me to “watch my mouth.”
    Without exception, these people are just ninnies and cowards who actually fear the “midnight knock at the door” from the PC police. My response – “F” em all!
    And while we’re on the subject of corporate mindset that some other posters brought up, before I went into business for myself I worked for three companies. Without exception, every one of my bosses and supervisors for whom I have respect to this day, regularly used words like “bastard” and the “F” word. Again, that’s how real people talk in real situations. It’s the ones who were all PC about that, that never really meant much to me, then or now.
    Strong language is a part of life. People need to grow up. God!
    Keep it real!
    – ARH

  19. Mel Avatar

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  20. Jeff Avatar

    Anybody with a “personal development blog” containing the words “bastard”, “asshole”, and “whore”, I need to have in my aggregator.
    f-wordin’ a.

  21. Jayne Avatar

    It never ceases to amaze me the people who troll around the internet checking other people’s grammar, spelling, and vocabulary.
    Sounds like someone missed his calling as a primary school teacher. As far as I’m concerned, those are the only people who have a legitimate call to correct others, and even then they should confine it to their students.

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  23. Lee Ann Avatar

    Ha-ha. You’ve got to be you –
    even if that includes some bastards and assholes.

  24. Dave Lewis Avatar

    Those farggin iceholes. HA! You have to be who you are. If people have an issue with your language on your site, then the should get a helmet.

  25. Des Walsh Avatar

    Your critic should probably not visit Australia, where the word is used frequently, without any conscious reference to parentage and often as a term of friendliness between males. “How are goin’, y’ole bastard?” is a very matey greeting. “Lucky bastard” a mixture of envy and admiration. “Big bastard got a way” – fisherman’s story. “Cheeky bastard” – a friendly way of talking about, say, a blogger who enjoys ruffling a few feathers 🙂

  26. Anne-Marie Avatar

    The only time I ever heard my dad swear was when he was doing business over the phone. And he was a gentleman and very professional.
    Andy, Illegitimi non carborundum – don’t let the bastards get you down.

  27. Dan Schawbel Avatar

    They certainly wouldn’t be in your target market, thats for sure. People that can’t handle the voice on your blog, shouldn’t be reading it anyways.

  28. Melinda Avatar

    Dear Andy, you’re entitled to use the language you want, but you really are a cretin. The poor fellow was trying to help you, so when your internet marketing business goes bust, you’ll be able to reflect upon the fact that it’s sometimes good to listen to friendly criticism and not get uptight about it

  29. Melinda Avatar

    Dear Andy, I enjoy your blog. You’re entitled to use the language you want, but you really are a cretin. The poor fellow was trying to help you, so when your internet marketing business goes bust, you’ll be able to reflect upon the fact that it’s sometimes good to listen to friendly criticism and not get uptight about it

  30. Priscilla Palmer Avatar

    I can help but wonder what happened to you. Not with language (that’s your deal) but, where are you at? For someone who normally posts several times a day to nothing for a month, I’m a just a little concerned. Hope all is okay. We miss you!

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